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Ahhh. Birthdays. If you are lucky they arrive every year on the same day, sometimes the same place, and many times with a gargantuan amount of fanfare. Mine will be here soon which sent me down memory lane on how I have approached my birthday over the years.
My childhood days were thrilling--cake, ice cream, friends, the center of attention, a year older. It couldn't get better than that as I anticipated the big day arriving when I would be the one in charge--the one in the center of everyone's universe--for that one glorious day. Oh! And the presents. Let's not forget the presents.
Then I muddled through a number of years where, although the day was lovely, it wasn't that breath taking, all about me, kind of day. Time passed and at the exact age of thirty-four, I had the absolute pleasure of sharing this day with my daughter. Granted her birth day was a bit challenging to be in labor but the end result of this precious child in my arms was by far the best gift I have ever received. Nothing tops it or ever will. (Sorry Rob, not even the Hamilton tickets).
After this birthday sharing daughter grew a little older, my mind was more focused on aging than enjoying the day. One more year older I would moan and dreaded those years passing by so quickly. How does that happen--the 40's turned into 50's which turned into 60's. And look at me. What happened to the looks from my twenties--probably my peak in physical and mental attributes. Birthdays had somehow become the dreaded event of the year.
Time moved on and when my parents passed away, my birthday evolved into a day of remembering. Thinking about how excited they were at a new baby entering their family, I began viewing birthdays differently and would be thankful for this magnificent life they gave me. The day turned into a observance of being and the feeling of closeness to the two people who loved me unconditionally.
Fast forward to the present with my birthday just around the corner. Hallelujah! I am alive and here to celebrate it is all I have to say. Cancer tends to put certain events into perspective and years ago, if someone had told me I would be jumping up and down thrilled to be turning 66, I would have rolled my eyes thinking the distant age of seventy is closing in at an alarmingly fast rate of speed.
But now, on the verge of my big day, I plan on whooping it up even though the number of candles adorning the cake could start a fire--who cares because-- yippee coyote and all that jazz--I AM HERE living and thriving for one more year.
Now---"Wait for it, wait for it, wait for it" ( a reference to Hamilton if you haven't seen it)...
To help make this upcoming day even better, please consider a donation to UW Carbone Cancer Center--My birthday! It will come close (but not quite) to rivaling the best gift I've ever received.
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